I really need some advice about blowjobs!!

[Jaclyn]

So I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time a couple of days ago. This was the first blowjob I've ever given. At first I didn't know what I was doing, but after a few minutes, I caught on fast and really got into it.
I can't believe I'm saying this, but I actually did enjoy doing it! I liked the taste and how it felt in my mouth....that is, until my jaw started hurting like crazy!
I wanted to make him cum, but I couldn't finish him off because of my jaw! He said he wasn't mad and he didn't want me to be uncomfortable, and I know this is true because he didn't act mad or anything. I can't help but feel a little bad, though.

Okay, so what I'm asking is, how can I prevent this serious jaw pain? Do I just fight it and keep going? And once he cums, do I let him do it on my face or do I try and swallow it all?
Please don't laugh at me, I could really use some advice here. Guys and girls, let me know what you think.
Thanks!

[goonarms]

The Jaw pain will go away in time... The more blow jobs the longer you'll be able to go... which is probably something your boyfriend will like to hear:p .. But about the blowing it your mouth thing... I'd let him try it but make sure he's blown it the day before or morning of because if he doesn't you may be surprised by the amount of cum that'll hit your mouth... Just remember Practice Practice Practice!

[Jaclyn]

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Great, thank you! I'll definitely start practicing more. :D

[goonarms]

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I'm sure your boyfriend will be the one thanking me ahha

[DSF Guest 1]

sorry, I can't help much on advise about giving them, but I tell you I am a PRO at receiving them! I can take a BJ like a champ!!! The best I can do is to tell you to ask him what he wants, and unlike another thread in this forum, guys to NOT want anal stimulation....stay away from the tater!!!!!

[towdog]

You could always watch a few blow job vids for any pointers. There are a four good ones below. As far as "finishing" him, that should really be whatever you are comfortable with. I guarantee he will love it, no matter which way you prefer. I personally like any blow job I can get....haha :D

Also, I did not post any preview pics since they are NSFW.

Also, when you unpack the bj.rar file, you're gonna get a few folders with some pics in them. just delete them unless you want to see a bunch of porn pics. and it might or might not ask for a password to unpack.

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[DSF Guest 1]

I think everyone agreed that this is how it should be done....

http://www.drunkenstepfather.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2855

[Choppie]

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Sounds like you may have mild to moderate TMJ (Temporomandibular joint disorder), heres some info...Wiki on TMJ (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temporomandibular_joint_disorder) and tmj.org (http://www.tmj.org/). There are all kids of ways to keep from having a flare up, I use a retainer when I sleep, and it helps. When TMJ is at it's worst you won't be able to eat or anything, so have it checked out.

[DSF Guest 1]

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biggereasy_e is now biting his tounge and holding back because Choppie seems to be a decent forum member......

[Choppie]

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Oh man, feel free to throw any quips. I'm a good sport and if I run into similar situations it will only increase my mental ammo.

But to explain, I had all four of my wisdom teeth out at once, and the freakin spawn of Dr. Giggles decided to get to the last tooth and completely destroy the fucker and have to dig it out with a scalpel. Not fun. Ever since I've suffered from TMJ. I'd still like to run into that dude on the street.

[binary_jester]

I am the perfect candidate for a blow job. Asians NEVER are the cause of TMJ. We can help with smoking cessation though.

[Nature's Folly]

God bless you girl, the world needs more ladies like ya.

[goonarms]

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As if i need anymore evidence to rejoice not having wisdom teeth

[Jaclyn]

Thanks for the advice, everyone! I'm definitely going to watch some BJ videos now, you know, for educational purposes. ;)
I'm not sure about the TMJ, I already wear a retainer when I sleep because I have bruxism (grinding teeth involuntarily, when sleeping).
But thanks anyways! :)

[DSF Guest 1]

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A little bit of advise, never, ever, ever, EVER use these two words in the same conversation with BJs.....

[goonarms]

Don't do this :
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZItsbLzc73s&mode=user&search=

[satan666]

^^^ hahahaha ^^^^ hahahaha funny video

[towdog]

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haha freaking hillarious

[TylerB]

From the blowjobs that gotten as experience, the deep throating is nice, but not a necessity throughout the whole thing. The majority of the sensitivity is the tip of the dick, so save your jaw and gag reflex, I find a lot of tongue action at the top while she strokes with her hand to be the best feeling, and taking as much of it down every once in a while. And no matter how much guys say it doesn't matter, everyone loves a swallower.

[Tobias Funke]

You know what...just the fact that you like it, and you are willing to do it is a wonder in itself...once married, wifey stopped for the most part. Want to make him happy, surprise him...drop to your knees when alone, unzip, pull it out, suck it...and if you want, you can let him cum on you, you can swallow, or, just get it him really going, then stop, put it back and promise him more later...

ANY BJ IS A GOOD BJ...

[Choppie]

Yep, that old adage....Whats the difference between your wife, your dog, and a blow job?












You can't beat a blow job.

[Jaclyn]

:D Hey guys! Thanks for the advice!
I gave him another blowjob today and made him cum! I swallowed some of it, the rest, not sure where it went. LOL.
The jaw pain was intense, but when it got bad, I turned it into a handjob. I alternated between a blowjob and a handjob, and he LOVED it!
Tonight was just perfect. I wore black boyshorts too (because they were voted the sexiest underwear for women in our forum!).
We didn't actually have sex, because neither of us had any condoms handy (which sucked!!), but it was still a good night. Thanks guys!

[binary_jester]

Content and Download links visible to registered users only.Marry me? lol

Friends shouldn't let friends type drunk.

[goonarms]

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I'm sorry my friend but I beg to differ!

[binary_jester]

Content and Download links visible to registered users only.Meat grinder comes to mind.

[Scotsman70]

Don't forget the balls and make it as wet as you can

[nickienickie]

Everyone wants to be great at something, and I pride myself on giving fantastic blow jobs - and I've been often told that it's the best blow job ever!

The key is to keep it wet and keep the rhythm.. use your hand while you blow and maybe give it a nice twist at the top. Make a little noise while you do it so he knows you're into it, little moans are great. And I can't tell you this enough - actually enjoy doing it. Men are turned on even more when we like it because most guys have been blown by girls who don't actually want to be doing it. Trust me, enthusiasm covers over a lack of experience.

Just always, always remember... no teeth!

[Jaclyn]

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Thank you!!! This is the best advice on this topic so far! I just knew a girl would give the best advice on this, glad you posted!!! :) And stay on this site (and keep posting), there's hardly any of us girls as it is!!!

[Camlawnman]

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[Miss ~Chloe~]

I give the best blowjobs ever. My gay guyfriend taught me how to do it exactly like guys like it.

[Randal Graves]

Every girl thinks she gives great blowjobs, but let's be honest. Just slobber on it a little & don't bite. Guys aren't that hard to please, just the fact you're willing to do it is usually enough.

[Jules Winfield]

I think the originator of this thread is a bot. Who talks like that?

[Randal Graves]

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The 14 yr old virgin of my dreams after wine coolers.

[VirginiaB]

yep, i remember my first b.j... giving one, i mean!
well, i had the same prob. the thing is, you shouldn't open your mouth all the way and keep your jaw locked. your moth should be relaxed so this thing won't happen. if your jaw or neck does get tired though, give it a rest and try just licking/switch to a hand job. when you're rested up, go back to the blowjob.
like goonarms said, with time, and practice, that shit will be obsolete! :D

[Jaclyn]

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Okay, no. I'm not a bot. I just speak properly, sorry!

[alittleoffhedy]

i remained virginal throughout high school, meaning i gave a lot of head. i'm not saying i'm an expert or anything but i've got some tips to get by.

firstly, i always live by this mantra. "act like it's a tasty treat, like an icecream pop or something." that way i enjoy it and i get really into it. i try to look straight up into his eyes while doing it and make little moans (not ridiculously loud ones, that could be distracting.)

make it seem like you can't get enough. sometimes it's also good to play the naive card, stop whatever you're doing and ask if it feels good and ask what you can do better, etc. i had an ex who, immediately after i did that, came in 30 seconds.

also, think of what makes you feel good. i know that when a guy fingers me or i get off myself, i dont rub the skin vigorously, i kind of push the skin around. for example, grip your arm, and rub up and down. you're kind of moving with the skin. i like to perform this on the base of the penis while licking the tip. just get into it, and he won't be able to get enough.

i also enjoy to give a great blow job and the look of satisfaction on his face afterwards.:D

[dusio22]

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OK, you are hot, show your breasts to perverts on forums AND you like giving head?

Wanna get married?

[alittleoffhedy]

haha...i'd much rather give head than the alternative, i just am not into guys going down on me. i've only had it once and it was a horrible experience.

[sportster]

In that case, I'll lay odds he didn't know what he was doing. If you'd like a second chance, I'll gladly volunteer!

[satan666]

guy just didnt know what he was doing

[alittleoffhedy]

good to know. my friends always rave about it but i'm more of a giving person. :)

[dusio22]

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whoever you let dine at your delicious Y obviously had no clue what they were doing.
I'd be happy to change your mind.

[goonarms]

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Thats just too bad... You have to get someone who likes doing it and I'm sure you will

[DSF Guest 10]

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I don't know why you have to criticize the one who posted with correct grammar, punctuation, and spelling. I think it should be an admirable quality, not one which causes distrust.

[Thomas]

Refer to this thread - http://www.drunkenstepfather.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4323





:)

[DSF Guest 10]

I used to HATE giving blow jobs. It used to take a lot convincing from my current boyfriend to get me to go down on him. The biggest tip I can give you is to actually like the person you're going to give it to. Originally, with other guys, I hated doing it because I wasn't that into them and it was like pulling teeth for them to get me to do it. I did not at all enjoy it and then avoided the topic at all costs. :eek:

However, after dating my current boyfriend for a while, that "hated" topic came up. He told me that he'd rather have someone well-trained than fumbling. He took me through each individual step, from the hand motions to the way I should twirl my tongue. :)

Now, I really LOVE giving blow jobs. It is best when I know that he really enjoys it. PLUS, I get to be more inventive as time goes on, i.e. stimulating the perineum, etc. :D