My Boyfriend is Ignoring Me && i Need Dick

[VirginiaB]

and i need help and suggestions from you sexual geniouses. here goes:
i've known my boyfrind for 2 years and he basically introduced me to sex. he molded me from a beginner to a pro and now i have a higher sex drive than him. i watch porn (girl-on-girl, htreesomes feat. huge ... members), take care of myself, everything i can when he's not around. but my demands (more like fantasies) for sex at least 3 times a week wears him out.
i don't know what to do. i mean, i consider myself a catch, as do other people that i know and meet. i thought that he would flip and be ecstatic about how much i want it ... but he's not.
and my fingers don't reach far enough in.

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[binary_jester]

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[Flash]

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Thats strange dont know to many guys who would turn down sex.He thinks 3 times a week is too much? hmm maybe hes not attracted to u lol juss kiding:p

U didnt give much details (except for wat porn u enjoy lol) but maybe things are getting repeptitive ? Try some new things he might get a little more into it. Men get fed up with routines after while and wan something fresh. I know im like that.Also it might happen that i like someone(or i tink i do) and after while i get fed up with them or see something else that interests me but thats clearly not the case since uve been togethter for 2 years. I have other suggestions but i thought id try this one first.

[DSF Guest 1]

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if you're still with the same dude that busted you open, I can almost guarantee that you are not a pro....and that may be part of the problem....

[VirginiaB]

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well that's a catch-22 because it wouldn't be right for me to run around and become a pro ... rite?
but as far as being a pro goes i can make him blast off in 5 minutes or less :eek: love giving him bj's.

i mean, i try and go out of my way for his satisfaction, even if it means i don't get satisfied. i just want to break this cycle, and i have no clue where to start.
details: i've tried being spontaneous (like giving him a lapdnace in the middle of the kitchen), he responded but it didn't go all the way. in the car, i started to touch myself and then went in to give him head, and he stopped me, saying he needed to focus on driving.

do those scenarios help?

[Randal Graves]

He doesn't want to be with you anymore, but he doesn't have the balls to leave. Guys don't turn down blowjobs. If you're trying to suck his dick and he won't let you, it's not the blowjob that he doesn't want it, it's that he doesn't want the blowjob from you. It sounds harsh, but it's how I see it.

[DSF Guest 1]

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sorry, but I have to agree with randoy on this...been there done that...turned it down just to prove a point..dude wants out, just doesn't have the balls to tell you....

[IndieEmoPunk]

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three times a week wears him out? wtf. . . if i didn't at least have sex once a day with ex girlfriend I'd go crazy. . . it's like, something isn't quite right. . . one time, me and my ex got all fucked up at the bar, she was a mess when we got back to my house. . . .she passed the hell out, and i figured i wasn't getting any that night so passed out next to her. . . .woke up half an hour later to her riding me, and meanwhile I was in mid stroke, fucking her as well. . . . . i guess i was having sex in my sleep, until i woke up and we fucked for hours cuz we were drunk. . . . . that was great. . . .i'd wake up to blowjobs and hand jobs all the fucking time. . . . .

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i also used to fuck my ex in the woods while we were on walks, on the washing machine, almost where ever we could fuck and not get caught, etc.. . . .on the way back from bonnaroo 2006 she got completely naked in the car and started masturbating while i was driving back. . . .i focused on driving, and giving her a helping hand. . . .wtf. . .is he gay? i have to say, guys do get sick of routine. . . new and fresh things are always a plus, and changing shit up,

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i would say i was in a similar situation with the ex. . . didn't care to be with her anymore cuz she put me through a lot of grief and stupid bullshit, but how was I going to say no to constant blowjobs and sex? i still had feelings for her, but we weren't going to be together anymore. I broke up with her, but she still wanted to get back together. We tried the whole friends thing for a bit, but before we knew it, we were both naked and having sex. . . .

[goonarms]

Its a tad strange a man is turning down blowjobs... But i can sorta understand Blow jobs and driving don't really mix the best especially around traffic ahah could end up in a major accident

[DSF Guest 1]

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umm, I've been trying my whole life and have yet to find anything that a BJ doesn't mix with....

[BubbleBoy]

Just based on what little you're telling us VirginiaB, and believe me, you can hardly sum up an entire psychological issue in a couple of paragraphs, but, yeah... he's just not into you anymore, but doesn't want to give up the easy access to sex.

I've been that dude, and I bet it's because his big thrill was being your 'first', 'teaching' you the ways of his world, and making you the perfect lover for him all-around. Once he achieved that, what does he have? It was the thrill of the hunt, I think, and once he caught and domesticated you, he got bored. He was in lust with your wide-eyed wonder and new experiences.

The honeymoon phase for him is over. But I guarantee you, he doesn't want to share you with anyone else. You ditch him and hook up with someone else, and he'll be jealous as sin. Try it, even if it's just a friend you do nothing with. He'll wake up if even remotely thinks you are practicing his education on someone else.

If he doesn't, there was other crap going on, and you're better off. Good luck.

[bkj316]

If you are as hot as you say you are then your boyfriend is probably cheating on you. 3 times a weak is not enough.

[Haysoos]

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DING!

He is tired of you, but doesn't want to ditch you for some reason. How long has this disinterest been going on? Chances are he's stringing you along while he plays the field of the side. Possibly is just keeping you around until he finds a replacement.

Or, he's fucking dumb or gay. 3 times a week is a compromise for me, not an ideal situation. :D

[trondi]

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Agreed!!!
when I am not into a chick anymore I don't feel like hitting it either, and it has nothing to do with looks.
However( Contradiction time), Relationships ebb and flow, no one fucks like rabbits for ever, and sometimes your hot for your lady and sometimes she can leave me the fuck alone.
Girls always need to know where they stand in the scheme of things and guys don't.
Girl: "I know you like me but, why do you like me."
Guy: "If I didn't like you you wouldn't be here, now could you move away from the T.V."
If he still likes you and isn't cheating on you might still be all right.
Bianry, are you a Minnesotan?

[RvP]

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yea same here buddy, i like mine with vodka,

but seriously what you need to do is just go off sex with your boyfriend for a while, he will then want to fuck you so bad because he isnt controlling the situation,

send us nude pics and we will say if your a catch:p

[dusio22]

I say we all line up and give this poor lady all the dick she needs!!!

Oh, and I've never turned down head in my life. Even if I hated the chick. Head is head. You can forget a lot of shit when you have your crank banging away at some tonsils.

[a1ctt]

I think we need pics to make sure your hotness is not the problem.

[fatanduseless]

Sorry, I'm callin' BS. Whoever VirginiaB is, they are looking for someone to step up to the plate and say "I can if he can't."
Sounds like a ploy to screw with you guys.
No one is biting though, so BRAVO!
If you are serious VB sorry for my remarks. Either dump him or find someone just for sex on the side.
Just make sure it's safe. Maybe your guy will miss it when he's not gettin any.

[Haysoos]

For the love of baby jesus, dump him or shut the vagina. Simple as that, you are not happy, and if this is a "relationship", that should be a concern of his. If it's not, obviously there is a problem. So either dump him cause he's not satisfying you, or cut him off. If cutting him off doesn't bother him, then.......

I think it'd be hilarious if she dumps him cause he won't fuck.

[VirginiaB]

Updates:
We've banged twice since i did this post. It was earth-shattering, and exactly what i needed. i kind of just bumrushed him the other day and there you have it. it was something he wasn't used to coming from me. and i got to give him his head again, which i love to do :D
The problem remains that he thinks we bang too much...
Thanks evryone for your advice, even the harsh ones. I appreciate it. But what i'm going to do is shut down shop until ... well i dunno.

And p.s.: i can't send you all nudes yet! it's only the first post :p

[IndieEmoPunk]

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that should never ever be a problem. . . problem and the phrase bang too much does not belong in the same sentence.

[Randal Graves]

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I think every chick's first post should be required to include nude pics. It's never too early to show us your boobies.

[xposeddreamer]

Sounds like he's not connecting with you intellectually and thinks it's just the physical side of things that are keeping things going on. Me personally would not have a problem with this. Come on over and I'll service you =P. But seriously that's what I think.

[sportster]

No such thing as too early! Grab the sharpie, write DSF across your chest, snap a pic and upload. ;)

[DSF Guest 1]

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no nudes yet I see, but let me ask you this..Did he fuck you harder than he ever has before? And it was great...right? That's what I did EVERY TIME I WAS LEAVING A CHICK..just wait on the pink slip honey...its cumming now, just not on you...dudes got a new car, you're just his tinker toy that is sitting in the garage...

[RvP]

Yea we need nudes to really get this story straight

[nitro_girl]

ok love honestly what the guys have been saying is true, take this from another girl the relationship is over! everything you have been saying sounds so familliar, i had this happen to me in jan this year... best thing you can do is try to distance yourself so the breakup doesnt end as bad!

sounds like you're ready to move on anyway... plenty more guys out there, get yourself a rebound, use him for all hes got and leave him when you either drain his credit card or find someone who is your better half lol :D

best of luck xo

[Randal Graves]

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Nude pics please...

[a1ctt]

Well start of slow and just show us your tits. We can work up to full nudes as you feel more comfortable.

[E60351]

this is great ... the thread has turned into a bunch of helpful pervs and i love it ... "we'll give advice in fuckloads if you show us your tits" ... personally i'm thinking this is just a small bump in the road and you two will work it out

[nitro_girl]

lol perverts :P

this is supposed to be an advice posting not all u guys asking girls for nude pics!! jeez theres enough porn on here anyway do u REALLY need to see another pair of tits? dont see the attraction myself, seen one pair seen them all :P

[satan666]

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except for yours...:p

if you got 'em...POST 'EM!

http://i27.tinypic.com/2e2kp48.jpg

Kidding of course!............... not really

[dusio22]

the expression regarding tits is, "seen one pair, NEED to see them all."
Now let's start with yours.


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[sportster]

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Yes. We actually do. :D

[nitro_girl]

lol sorry guys im not gonna show my tits, got a career to think about and stupid stuff u post on the web has a funny way of coming back to bite you in the ass when you least expect it!

[scampr]

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That's a damn thorough interview or annual review process if you could be identified by your tits from a webshot!! I'm glad I don't work in your field.

....excuse me Mr scampr it has come to our attention that there is a picture of the head of your cock on the internet. Here at Maytag we have a zero tolerance policy. Now strip while Ms. Johnson inspects your erect cock to determine if you are indeed the culprit...


But the sentiment, while not very gentlemanly, is not unfounded. Since we know very little it's hard to give accurate feedback. Seems like it would be easier to show yourself to a bunch of perverts (clearly our standards are negotiable!) than come out and ask your boyfriend to tell you why you turn him off.

[nitro_girl]

lol im not that stupid, its not the picture that would get me busted by itself... if you tried googling my name it would probably show up with my user name on this site, these posts and any pics i put up!

[goonarms]

Your too smart for your own good :)

[Randal Graves]

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more like to smart for our good.

[nitro_girl]

um thanks... i think? lol

[idahotransplant]

How about you e-mail the pics to someone else here and we can post them for you. Never put your name with them or anything. There's always a loophole.

[DSF Guest 1]

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yes, exactly, think about it, posting your tits could actually MAKE your career....you'll be famous honey....

[Jaclyn]

Why don't you just buy yourself a nice vibrator? I suggest the rabbit, that's what I use when my boyfriend is out of town.

[DSF Guest 1]

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got any vids of that? You know, in "I feel myself" style?

[goonarms]

ahah that would be sweet ahah

[satan666]

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Gawd i missed you man! :D

[towdog]

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You use your real name when you register for forums?

[mydarlingclementine]

She makes a good point actually. I guess that's my career in politics over before it started.

Cx

[sportster]

Depends on who you tell about it. The odds are big time against someone that you know seeing the pics. The way people get caught is when they use a professional photographer (model's release) or when they tell someone about the pics. That info gets filed away and when you make the news, they try to cash in by revealing the photos.

Moral of the story.... Post away, just don't tell anyone you know. ;)

[nitro_girl]

wow lots of posts since i last checked this forum...

to shasturbator: nope, lol definitely not interested in that sort of career! im in my final years of law school :P

jaclyn: um lol im not actually the girl who was asking for help and started this thread! i only posted to give advice but it seems to have turned into a bunch of perves asking to see nudie pics :P not that i disagree with your suggestion tho :D

towdog: yep im a beginner at this forum thing and unfortunately if you search google all the posts here show up :( i checked the other day - i guess in future i wont use my real name!

sportster: its alot easier than that to get caught out, i was suprised by the ammount of stuff that turned up on google that i thought was well buried - even random events websites where ive been snapped in a club and my friends tagged the picture without me knowing :S bit scary actually!!

so yeah sorry guys no nudie pics coming from me sorry!

[sportster]

My point exactly. Your friends knew about the pics and what they did allowed them to be found.

[nitro_girl]

yeah but the club pictures werent the only things that came up, there were alot of random posts on forums from YEARS ago! anything that gets put on the net is always going to be out there and its usually pretty easy to track it down, especially if you use your real name when you sign up (like i did) or use the same screen name on multiple sites :(
i dont think it matters who you tell or not, if you post it theres a good chance someone will be able to find it!

[sportster]

Simple enough... To my earlier suggestion add "Don't use your real name when you sign up at a forum."

[nitro_girl]

point taken! too late to change that now tho

[sportster]

You could always re-register with a new name. ;)

[towdog]

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very true. you surf the net, find something, like it, "steal" it, repost it, then somebody else does the same thing. It's a hell of a pyramid.

you do whatever you're comfortable with Westie. Posting your boobs isn't the only way to get an avatar. It's the quickest way, but not the only way. I've got one and nobody has seen my boobs.

[DSF Guest 1]

guess I'm lucky, my last name is (or at least used to be) famous....and some liberal newspaper writer in KS shares the same first and last name as I do, so all the searches just turn up pages and pages of them.....

[idahotransplant]

Same thing happens to me. I share my name with an actor, a restaurant and a construction company.

[BubbleBoy]

Can't be much worse than me. I share mine with an asshole judge of one of the many incarnations of the stupid Idol circus show. And some famous rock star photographer. I could use that...

[Lithium543]

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Queer and British, or a fat black man? :lol:

[Mr Handlebars]

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Does you wife know you are planning a 3some?

[Marie-Eve Martinez]

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I hate to say it, but I agree.

Even for myself, the telltale sign that I'm gonna leave someone is I stop wanting to fuck them....

[Mr Handlebars]

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and if you had been smart, you would have registered and trademark your name and now you would be suing them for copyright infringement and barbie could be your attorney. Then you wouldn't need naked pics of her, cause she'd be right in your face, laying down pipe with a rich man.

[nitro_girl]

" and if you had been smart, you would have registered and trademark your name and now you would be suing them for copyright infringement and barbie could be your attorney. Then you wouldn't need naked pics of her, cause she'd be right in your face, laying down pipe with a rich man."

LOL... see? its all your fault for forgetting to trademark your name, no naked pics for you buddy :P